Cheri Baumann Health & Fitness Article

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What is Draining Your Energy Part 2

By: Cheri Baumann

Part 2: Lack of Adequate Self-Care is a Major Energy Drainer

Are you the kind of person who tends to put the needs of others before your own?

Are you the kind of person who your friends and family always count on to say “yes” to their requests?

Are you the kind of person who has to beg out of a commitment at the last minute or work yourself to the bone because you have “over promised”?

Wouldn’t it be nice instead to put yourself first, draw yourself a lovely aromatic bubble bath, and read your favorite magazine while someone else cooks dinner?

Part This is called caring for yourself because if you don’t, no-one else will.

Flight attendants always say while demonstrating the proper use of oxygen masks: “Please put your oxygen mask on first if you are traveling with someone who needs assistance.” This statement applies to every area of your life. It is your responsibility to adequately (if not extremely) care for yourself so you may be there first and foremost for yourself, and then for those around you.

Each time you neglect yourself, you give a piece of yourself away. You begin to lose your sense of personal power and the vital energy within you begins to drain away.

Adequate self-care is of the up-most importance.

Eat quality food, drink lots of water, exercise regularly and get at least 7 to 8 hours of sleep each night
Become aware of the things affecting your life so you can make decisions based on what is most important to you
Give yourself the opportunity to make positive changes in your life that are for your highest good, even though it may feel uncomfortable at first
Realize you are much more than the ‘roles’ you play and let them go
Let go of any addictions or compulsions you may have because they dramatically reduce your ability to make sensible decisions
Deal with unfinished business so that you may move forward living fully in the present
Take yourself on a self-discovery tour because the better you know yourself, the more likely you are to accept and love yourself exactly as you are
Become a ‘human being’ instead of a ‘human doing’
Let go of the desire to keep up with the Jones’s (whoever they are) and design your life according to your own values
Learn to set clear boundaries and do whatever it takes so you can learn to say “NO”
Set aside time just for “you” and do whatever it is that makes you happy

Remember, it’s easy to get sucked into the idea that a ‘certain lifestyle’ will make you happy, or that helping everyone around you will somehow make you into a better person. What will make you happy is living your life in alignment with who you truly are, so that all the choices you make are fulfilling. This only happens when you put yourself first.

Here are ten ways that you can take time for yourself:

Cuddle up with a good book
Buy yourself something special (doesn’t have to be expensive)
Sit in front of the fireplace with a cup of tea and listen to some favorite music
Take a break during the middle of the day and go for a walk to clear you head and get some fresh air
Get close to nature – drive out to the country, take a walk in the woods, or along a lake or stream, watch the rhythm of the waves as they roll on to the beach
Take a nap
Go see that movie you’ve been dying to see
Realize that sometimes being alone is good for you
Start writing in a journal – you’ll be amazed at how therapeutic it can be
Play with your children or your pet

I am sure that you could come up with at least 10, 20 or perhaps even 50 more ways to take time for yourself. Remember, you are worth it! Nurture yourself! Love yourself! You are the only “you” you have. You will be giving yourself a huge gift, as well as everyone else around you, when you begin to give yourself the care you need. Make “I put myself first!” your new motto, and watch how much better you will begin to feel.

Cheri Baumann, Life Strategist, Personal Development Coach & trainer with My Private Coach, Personus Coaching & Training, and the University of British Columbia. You can get more information about Cheri at www.MyPrivateCoach.com/cbaumann and contact her for a complimentary coaching session at either cheri@myprivatecoach.com or cbaumann@telus.net . This article may be published without the consent of the author as long as the publisher’s box is included in the post.

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